so, in the beggining....(tasha's version)

so to start off this blog, i thought i'd sorda start from the beggining...and actually it will be a couple of blogs..and then we'll be caught up, and post new stuff as much as we can. okay so christopher and i met at the end of november '05. I had been working at Bear rock Cafe for about 4 months.

<-- me at work, i used a cool setting on my phone.

There was a lot of drama going on with the managers, and finally they got things right. they hired a general manager, heather...my favorite boss ever! and me as a shift manager (obviously the best descision they could have made) so they needed another shift manager and and an assistant GM. so one day these two guys come in (not at the same time) so the first one that came in was a big guy...really big...not like fat though, just big. someone who looked like he would give good hugs. heather interviewed him. things went "okay" she said.

The next guy to come in had shaggy hair that desparately needed a hair cut, crooked teeth..and asked for a cup of coffee....yuck! and yes, this pic is what my first impression of him was. and then after the interviews i asked heather what she thought and she said she liked the second guy better. danget i thought! why? he looks so....weird, the other guy looked fun! (i'm really not a shallow person..promise)

so a couple days go buy and heather says that christopher guy is starting on monday (or whatever day it was) and a girl named sara was going to be the new shift manager, who was also starting then.

So when christopher finally started i only worked with him for like one or two days cuz i left to meghanns for like a week. but we hit it off pretty well. and when i say hit it off, i mean, we got a long really well. i was no where near thinking "i like like this guy" but i was excited, cuz i had a bad impression of him and he was actually pretty cool.

so we ended up flirting a lot at work...but i still didn't like him like him. now there are three major reasons i did not like him..actually 4. okay so first, this is like dec/jan time. i had just badly ended a 1.5 year relationship at the beginning of nov. #2 i liked this kid kyle at work. this is me and kyle at work. #3 i had just turned 20 and just graduated from high school...he was 29....#4 i kinda thought he was gay.

okay so now i will tell you why i thought he was gay. #1 he pointed out a girl to me and mentioned she had strawberry blonde hair...he actually said strawberry blonde... #2 he asked me if i wanted to go get my nails done with hime. #3 he showed me his tattoo of eeyore...on his mid lower back...

so anyway, to make a really really longs story long, we started hanging out, he helped me unlock my car with his roadside assistance and we would go to his apartment and watch movies and hang out in the hot tub. i was still in denile that i even liked him. but then one night, when we were watching a movie...we kissed. i called meghann and told her. i wasn't sure how i felt about it, i was still kinda weirded out with the whole age thing. it weirded me out that when he was my age i was like in 6th grade. weird. so i told meghann i was gunna tell him i didn't want to to date. so i did...and he took it well, for like a day. then told me he missed me...blah blah blah (i love you baby :) so i gave in. and then, i dunno, it's like something clicked...oh yah, it's that i told my parents (cuz before it was a secret) and they were okay with it...i think the whole time that was the big problem. so anyway, the rest is basically history. we started talking about getting married, and the big date was supposed to be in may of '07 but we hadn't told anyone else yet. but then i found out i was pregnant (on may 8th '06) and then we got married (on may 18th '06)...yup shot gun wedding, but actually it was perfect!!! and that's my version of our story!!!